November 11, 2025

What Is Existential Therapy and How Can It Help You Find Purpose?

Discover what existential therapy is and how finding meaning can improve your mental health and daily life.

Created By:
Emma Macmanus, BS
Created Date:
November 11, 2025
Reviewed By:
Ryan Sultan, MD
Reviewed On Date:
November 11, 2025
Estimated Read Time
3
minutes.

Key Takeaways

  • Existential therapy helps people explore life’s big questions—meaning, freedom, isolation, and mortality—to live more authentically.
  • Instead of focusing only on symptoms, it encourages self-reflection and personal responsibility for one’s choices and values.
  • The approach supports those struggling with depression, anxiety, ADHD, OCD, BPD, psychosis, and eating disorders by helping them find purpose within their challenges.
  • Core principles include freedom, responsibility, authenticity, and acceptance of life’s inevitable uncertainties.
  • It complements structured treatments like CBT or medication by addressing the human experience behind the diagnosis.
  • Through existential therapy, clients learn to transform suffering into growth, reconnecting with what truly matters in their lives.
  • What Is Existential Therapy?

    Introduction: Beyond “Fixing” — The Turning Point Toward Meaning

    Most traditional therapies focus on symptom reduction—less anxiety, fewer depressive episodes, improved functioning. But what if a person’s distress isn’t simply about symptoms? What if it’s about the question, “What is my life for?” or “Who am I in the face of freedom, choice, and death?” That’s where existential therapy enters the frame.

    Existential therapy pivots from “What’s wrong with you?” to “What gives your life meaning?” It invites clients to engage with the core givens of existence—freedom, responsibility, isolation, meaninglessness, and mortality—and to craft responses that align with their authentic selves.

    At a time when burnout, existential dread, digital overload, and chronic mental-health conditions are on the rise, this approach offers profound relevance. It doesn’t ignore diagnoses like anxiety or ADHD; it situates them within the human condition and asks: How do we live fully despite them?

    Historical Roots: From Philosophy to Psychotherapy

    The existential movement in therapy draws from 19th- and 20th-century philosophers—Friedrich Nietzsche, Jean‑Paul Sartre, Martin Heidegger—and psychologists such as Rollo May, Irvin Yalom and Viktor Frankl. The approach matured in clinical psychology mid-20th century as existential humanistic therapy.

    Key developments:

    • Viktor Frankl’s logotherapy highlighted the “will to meaning,” derived from his Holocaust experiences.

    • Rollo May emphasized anxiety as a condition of living rather than pathology.

    • Irvin Yalom enumerated the four ultimate concerns: death, freedom, isolation, and meaninglessness.

    In essence, existential therapy places existence at its centre: our facticity (the facts of our being), our transcendence (our possibilities), and the tension between them.

    What Is Existential Therapy?

    At its core, it can be defined as:
    “An approach to psychotherapy that works with the human condition—freedom, meaning, death, isolation—and invites clients to face these givens and live more authentically.”

    Key pillars:

    • Freedom & Responsibility: We have the freedom to make choices—and with freedom comes responsibility for our lives.

    • Meaning & Purpose: Rather than “What’s wrong?” the question becomes “What matters to you?”

    • Isolation: We are ultimately alone in our experience; even in relationships, we face existential isolation.

    • Death & Finitude: Awareness of our mortality can provoke anxiety—yet also liberate.

    • Authenticity: Living in alignment with one’s values rather than external expectations.

    Existential therapy is less about technique and more about stance—a way of being with the client in fidelity to human being-in-the-world, as opposed to being a “case to fix.”

    “It is the anxiety of existence we must address—not simply the symptom.” — Irvin Yalom

    How Existential Therapy Works: Process and Stance

    Stage 1: Building Awareness

    Clients are guided to articulate:

    • What givens are pressing (e.g., “I feel trapped,” “What will I do when my child leaves home?”).

    • What life choices they’ve made—and which they inherited.

    • The ways they avoid existential anxiety (via distraction, substance use, perfectionism, or control).

    Stage 2: Confronting the Givens

    In a safe therapeutic space, clients explore:

    • The anxiety of freedom: What could you choose if nothing stopped you?

    • Isolation: In what ways do you feel alone—even in relationships?

    • Death and finitude: How does mortality shape your priorities?

    • Meaninglessness: What gives your life value?

    Stage 3: Creative Living

    Clients begin to craft intentional responses:

    • Identifying values and aligning actions.

    • Choosing projects, relationships, or roles that matter.

    • Accepting the anxiety that comes with freedom rather than avoiding it.

    Stage 4: Integration and Relapse Prevention

    Existential insights are converted into lived practice—decision planning, value-based choices, and emotional endurance. Therapy may move into maintenance, focusing on confronting new existential challenges (midlife, aging, loss).

    When Existential Therapy Meets Diagnosed Conditions

    Existential therapy is not a replacement for evidence-based treatments—but a profound complement. Below are how it interacts with specific conditions:

    Depression

    Depression often involves hopelessness and meaninglessness. Existential therapy helps clients reconnect with purpose and engage in value-based living even when mood is low.

    Anxiety

    Anxiety isn’t only about threat—it may reflect existential fear (“Am I living fully?”) Existential therapy helps clients face uncertainty rather than avoid it.

    ADHD

    For clients with ADHD, existential work can counter a narrative of “lack” by inviting questions of possibility, choice, and meaning beyond distractibility or impulsivity.

    OCD

    OCD often involves rigid control and avoidance of uncertainty. Existential therapy invites embracing freedom, accepting the unknown, and living despite it.

    BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder)

    BPD is characterized by fears of abandonment, identity discontinuity, and emotional volatility. Existential therapy supports identity formation, authenticity, and enduring anxiety rather than immediate relief.

    Schizophrenia & Psychosis

    While medication remains essential for psychosis, existential therapy supports meaning reconstruction, relationship repair, and dignity beyond diagnoses.

    Eating Disorders

    Eating disorders often involve control, shame, and body avoidance. Existential therapy shifts focus from control to purpose—emphasizing life beyond the body, values beyond the scale.

    Key Benefits and Evidence

    • Enhanced meaning and purpose: Clients report greater life satisfaction.

    • Greater responsibility and empowerment: Reduced victim mentality.

    • Better coping with existential distress: Loss, aging, mortality become manageable.

    • Integration with other treatments: Can complement CBT, DBT, medication.

    Research: Although fewer randomized trials exist compared to CBT, meta-analyses show humanistic–existential therapies yield medium effect sizes for distress reduction. (nih.gov)

    Practical Exercises and Techniques

    • Existential journaling: “What value would I act on if I lived six months with no fear?”

    • Life-project planning: Identify one long-term value and create steps toward it.

    • Death-reflection exercise: Imagine your 90th birthday—what will you regret not doing?

    • Choice-awareness pause: When you react impulsively, ask: What choice am I making right now?

    • Value check-in: Weekly review: “Did my actions this week reflect my deepest values?”

    Limitations and Critiques

    • Some clients prefer symptom-focused interventions (e.g., CBT) and may struggle with existential ambiguity.

    • Limited empirical research compared to structured therapies.

    • Requires a client's willingness to face discomfort and uncertainty—not everyone is ready.

    • Cultural variations: Existential themes (mortality, freedom) may resonate differently across backgrounds.

    Integrative Psych in Chelsea, NYC

    At Integrative Psych, we incorporate existential therapy as part of our holistic clinical offering. We know that behind every diagnosis—depression, anxiety, ADHD, OCD, BPD, psychosis, eating disorders—there’s a human story about meaning, choice, and existence.

    Our team of psychiatrists and psychologists in Chelsea, NYC offers:

    • Collaborative assessment of diagnosis + existential concerns

    • Integration of existential therapy with CBT/DBT/ACT

    • Personalized care pathways that honor both symptom relief and meaning-making

    If you’re wondering not just “What’s wrong?” but “What matters?” we’re here to guide you.
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