December 1, 2025

Understanding Holiday Season Anxiety: Why This Time of Year Heightens Stress and How to Cope

Holiday season anxiety rises due to stress, family conflict, finances, and mental-health symptoms. Learn evidence-based coping strategies.

Created By:
Emma Macmanus, BS
Emma Macmanus, BS
Emma Macmanus is a research assistant who supports clinical and research projects with a warm, thoughtful focus on child and adolescent mental health.
Created Date:
December 1, 2025
Reviewed By:
Ryan Sultan, MD
Ryan Sultan, MD
Dr. Ryan Sultan is an internationally recognized Columbia, Cornell, and Emory trained and double Board-Certified Psychiatrist. He treats patients of all ages and specializes in Anxiety, Ketamine, Depression, ADHD.
Reviewed On Date:
December 1, 2025
Estimated Read Time
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Key Takeaways

  • Holiday season anxiety is driven by financial pressure, family dynamics, social expectations, and routine disruption.
  • Anxiety, depression, ADHD, OCD, BPD, psychosis, and eating disorders can worsen during the holidays.
  • Evidence-based treatments such as CBT, DBT, EMDR, and medication support help reduce seasonal stress.
  • Preparation, boundaries, emotional regulation, and clinical support are essential tools.
  • Integrative Psych offers comprehensive care across NYC and Miami for individuals struggling during the holidays.
  • Understanding Holiday Season Anxiety: Why This Time of Year Heightens Stress and How to Cope

    Introduction

    The holiday season is widely portrayed as a time of joy, connection, and celebration, yet for millions of people, it brings a significant rise in stress and anxiety. Holiday season anxiety is a well-documented phenomenon shaped by financial strain, family conflict, travel demands, social pressure, and the weight of expectations. At the same time, individuals living with chronic mental-health conditions—such as anxiety disorders, depression, ADHD, OCD, bipolar disorder, borderline personality disorder, schizophrenia, psychosis, or eating disorders—may find this period especially challenging.

    This article provides an evidence-based, compassionate look at why holiday season anxiety occurs, the psychological mechanisms behind it, and practical strategies to cope. It also highlights how clinical support, such as modalities like CBT, DBT, EMDR, or structured psychiatric care, can help people navigate this stressful time.

    Why the Holidays Increase Anxiety

    Holiday season anxiety emerges from a combination of emotional, environmental, and relational stressors. These include:

    • Family expectations and complicated relational dynamics
    • Financial pressures due to gift-giving, travel, and holiday events
    • Social anxiety, especially around gatherings
    • Disrupted routines, affecting sleep, diet, and exercise
    • Seasonal affective patterns, especially in colder climates
    • Memories or anniversaries tied to loss or trauma
    • Increased workload at school or work before year-end deadlines

    For individuals already managing conditions like generalized anxiety, holiday stress can amplify symptoms significantly. Those seeking clinical support often benefit from structured approaches like cognitive behavioral therapy, available through resources specializing in cognitive-behavioral therapy, which help identify unhelpful thinking patterns and establish healthier behavioral responses.

    Holiday Season Anxiety Across Mental Health Conditions

    Anxiety Disorders

    People already living with anxiety disorders often experience worsening symptoms during the holidays. Social events, pressure to perform “holiday cheer,” or disruptions to routine can activate physical symptoms (e.g., heart racing, stomach tension) and anxious thoughts. Many individuals seek evidence-based support for anxiety through resources such as anxiety treatment.

    Depression

    Depression often intensifies during the holiday season due to loneliness, unmet expectations, or grief. The contrast between internal emotional states and societal messaging of celebration can create feelings of isolation or shame. For many, resources focused on depression provide guidance on managing mood changes during winter months.

    ADHD

    People with ADHD frequently struggle with holiday season anxiety due to increased disorganization, disrupted structure, and executive functioning demands. Additional support through specialists in adult ADHD can help individuals prepare coping plans for this chaotic time.

    OCD

    The holidays may trigger OCD symptoms related to contamination fears, decision-making paralysis (e.g., selecting gifts), or intrusive perfectionistic thoughts. Evidence-based treatment resources for obsessive-compulsive disorder remain essential for symptom management.

    Eating Disorders

    Holiday gatherings often center around food, which can be highly distressing for individuals with eating disorders. Pressure to eat socially, comments about weight, or exposure to triggering foods can intensify emotional distress. Many find support through specialized resources for eating disorders.

    Bipolar Disorder

    The overstimulation and irregular sleep schedules common in the holiday season can destabilize mood for individuals managing bipolar disorder. Reduced routine can increase vulnerability to both depressive and hypomanic episodes.

    Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

    People with BPD often experience heightened emotional sensitivity, fear of abandonment, and interpersonal conflict—dynamics that may intensify during family gatherings. Insightful guidance on medication and emotional-regulation strategies can be found in resources addressing borderline personality disorder.

    Psychosis and Schizophrenia

    The holiday season might overwhelm individuals with psychosis or schizophrenia due to sensory overload, crowded environments, or interpersonal stressors. Psychotherapy and medication guidance can be found in resources such as psychosis and schizophrenia. Evidence-based psychiatric support—including tools like antipsychotic medication—helps maintain stability.

    Specific Stressors That Drive Holiday Season Anxiety

    1. Family Dynamics

    Holiday gatherings often bring unresolved conflict or emotional triggers to the surface. Individuals may feel pressure to maintain peace or present as “fine,” regardless of internal experiences.

    2. Financial Strain

    Gift expectations, event costs, and travel expenses can overwhelm finances, contributing to stress, guilt, or shame—especially for those facing economic hardship.

    3. Social Pressure

    Holiday events may trigger social anxiety, fear of judgment, or discomfort with large gatherings. This pressure can be especially intense for LGBTQ+ individuals navigating unwelcoming family spaces, who may benefit from resources specializing in gay and LGBTQ mental health.

    4. Grief and Loss

    The holidays are a common grief trigger, especially for people who have lost loved ones. The absence of meaningful figures can worsen symptoms of depression and anxiety.

    5. Trauma Triggers

    Holiday environments can evoke traumatic memories or sensations, especially for individuals with histories of family conflict or instability. Trauma-focused treatments, including EMDR, can support processing these reactions.

    Evidence-Based Strategies to Manage Holiday Season Anxiety

    Cognitive-Behavioral Approaches

    CBT helps individuals reframe anxious thoughts and behaviors. Those seeking structured therapy may explore options through resources such as cognitive-behavioral therapy.

    Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Skills

    DBT offers tools for distress tolerance, emotional regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness. Learning DBT skills from resources like DBT can help individuals navigate emotionally charged family interactions.

    EMDR for Trauma-Related Anxiety

    For those experiencing trauma-related symptoms during the holidays, EMDR can reduce emotional reactivity and promote grounding. Relevant guidance is available through EMDR.

    Ketamine-Assisted Therapy

    Some individuals with treatment-resistant depression experience heightened holiday season anxiety and may benefit from exploring alternative interventions such as ketamine-assisted therapy.

    Substance Use Support

    Holiday stress sometimes leads to increased alcohol or drug use. Individuals navigating these challenges can benefit from resources focused on addiction and substance abuse.

    Preparing Emotionally for the Holidays

    Preparation is one of the most effective ways to reduce holiday season anxiety. Strategies include:

    • Setting realistic expectations
    • Planning budgets ahead of time
    • Creating boundaries with family
    • Practicing grounding and mindfulness
    • Scheduling breaks from overstimulating environments
    • Prioritizing sleep and nutrition
    • Seeking clinical support early

    People often find it helpful to explore expert clinicians through platforms such as Integrative Psych or browse individual provider backgrounds via the experts directory.

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